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Tips to Parents of Teenagers

Richard H. Carmona, M.D., M.P.H., is the U.S. Surgeon General, he has the following dozen tips to help keep teenagers safe and healthy.

Healthy Dozen for 15 to 17 Year Olds (Middle Adolescence)

1. Teach teens healthy habits. Teach your teenager how to maintain a high level of overall health through nutrition, physical fitness, and healthy behaviors. Make sure your teen gets 8 hours of sleep a night -- a good night's sleep ensures maximum performance in academics and sports. Sleep is the body's way of storing new information to memory and allowing muscles to heal. Assist your teenager in practicing time management skills by helping them allot time for school, exercise, and fun time with friends and family. Encourage your teenager to participate in social activities, community groups, and/or sports. Your teen should share in household chores while at the same time taking on new responsibilities. Work with your adolescent to continue building decision-making skills and to understand the consequences of their behavior. http://www.ahrq.gov/ppip/childguide/

2. Promote safe driving habits. Make sure your teenager uses a seat belt every time he or she is in a car, and ask your child to ensure that all other passengers are wearing their seatbelts when he or she is driving. Encourage your young driver to drive responsibly by following speed limits and avoiding distractions while driving such as talking on a cell phone, focusing on the radio, or even looking at fellow passengers instead of the road. Ask them to never drink and drive, and encourage them to call home or a sober friend if they need a ride home after consuming alcohol. Remind them that there are serious consequences for driving irresponsibly, including harming themselves or someone else.

3. Teach teens the importance of healthy eating and physical activity. A healthy diet and adequate exercise maximizes the likelihood of teens growing up healthy and strong. Because teens are still growing and adding bone mass, a balanced diet is essential to your child's health. Provide three nutritious meals a day, with fruits and vegetables, supplemented with healthy snacks. Avoid foods and drinks that are high in sugar, fat or caffeine. Choose fruits, vegetables; bread cereal, other grains; lean meats, chicken, fish; and low fat dairy products. The 2006 Dietary Guidelines, as well as the new recipe book A Healthier You based on the Guidelines, can help you plan healthy meals for yourself and your teen. Teenagers also need 30 to 60 minutes of physical activities 3 or more times a week. Obesity and overweight, even in children, can significantly increase the risk of heart disease, diabetes, and other chronic illnesses, and the vast majority of overweight teens go on to become overweight adults. Healthy eating and exercise will ensure that your child maintains a healthy weight. Teen Dietary Guidelines

4. Take your teenager to the doctor and dentist. Preventing disease is easier -- and less painful! -- than curing it, so make sure your teenager gets regular check-ups. Your adolescent should have a primary health provider, such as a family practitioner or a physician specializing in adolescent medicine, who knows your child before he or she has an illness, injury, or issue that requires medical attention. Adolescents should have a preventive care visit once a year. Encourage good oral health. Cavities are the most common chronic disease among U.S. children. Your teen should brush twice a day with a soft toothbrush and floss daily. Talk with your dentist about fluoride and dental sealants. Make sure your teen has dental appointments on a regular basis, and learn dental emergency care. To find a doctor in your area, visit To locate dental care

5. Promotion of school success/ school achievement. Help your teen to become responsible for attendance, homework and course selection. Be sure to have conversations with your child about school and show your interest in his or her school activities. This will help them express any frustrations with school or thoughts of dropping out. Encourage them to pursue their talents and to participate in school activities that interest them. If your teen has trouble concentrating or is hyperactive more frequently than others are at the same stage of development, talk to your health care professional. Your child could have Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). ADHD can be managed through behavioral or medical interventions, or a combination of the two. High School Success

6. Prevent violence. Prevent bullying by encouraging peaceful resolutions to conflict and building positive relationships. Teach teens to respect others, and encourage tolerance. Limit your adolescent's exposure to violence in the media, the community, and at home. Teenagers pay more attention to their parents than you might realize -- they are watching all the time -- and teens who grow up in a family environment filled with violence may learn to view violence as normal, acceptable behavior. Teach your teens that there is no place for verbal or physical violence by setting an example with your words and actions and by showing them respect as well. Stop Bulling Now

7. Teach your teen to say no to smoking. Teenage smoking is a pervasive problem in our society. To put the problem into perspective, more than 4,000 teens will try their first cigarette today. Every day, more than 2000 kids become new regular, daily smokers. The pressure to experiment with tobacco can come from friends and peers. When adults smoke, they model behavior for children and teens. Smoking tobacco can turn into a life-long addiction that can be extremely hard to break. Discuss with your adolescent the very serious health risks that are associated with smoking, including heart disease, cancer, and decreased physical activity, as well as the more unattractive physical qualities that smokers have, including bad breath, stained teeth, and a long-term cough. Stop Tobacco Use

8. Know the 4 "W's" -- who, what, when, where. Always know who your teen is hanging out with, what they will be doing, when and for how long they will be out, and where they will be. And check up on them. Be aware of the dangers that can arise at teenage parties. Teen parties present an opportunity to your teen to experiment with alcohol or tobacco. One approach is to host the party so you have more control over ensuring that these parties stay safe and fun for everyone involved. Make sure you review the rules with your teen before the party. No "crashers" allowed. No tobacco, alcohol, or other drugs. No one can leave the party and then return. Make sure your teen knows that you expect them to act responsibly. Drug use Prevention

9. Be aware of your teen's mental health. Help teens increase their self esteem; taking on new challenges will help build confidence and demonstrate their strengths. Watch your child for signs of depression and stress. If your child appears sad, withdrawn, or suddenly dislikes going to school or hanging out with friends, he or she may be suffering from depression. Teens who participate in risky behaviors -- including sex, alcohol, and drugs -- are at a higher risk of depression. Make sure you talk to your teen about their feelings, or ask them to talk with a health professional, school counselor, or trusted adult. Mental health

10. Talk about sex. Even though you may not want to talk to your teen about sexual issues, if your teen is like most teens, they want you to. Teens who feel connected to their parents are more likely to have their first sexual experience later than teens who are not so well connected to their parents. Teach your teenager that only abstinence is 100 percent effective against pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. If you think your child is sexually active or thinking about having sex, discuss how to practice safe sex through condoms and other forms of contraception. Remind them that condoms are the only method of birth control that can reduce the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted disease. Teens and Sex

11. Encourage injury prevention. Your teenager should wear a helmet and protective gear when bicycling, riding a motorcycle, playing contact sports, using in-line skates, or riding a skateboard. Use of safety equipment can reduce injuries and even save your teenager's life. Because 80 percent of lifetime sun exposure occurs in childhood, it's important for parents to help their children practice sun safety. Just one blistering sunburn in childhood can double a child's risk of developing skin cancer later in life. Teach your child about sun safety, including staying inside during midday when the sun is the hottest; wearing a hat and sunglasses when outside; and applying sunscreen of SPF 15 or higher frequently. Tanning beds should be avoided. Tenn Injury Prevention

12. Talk to your children about the dangers of illicit drugs and alcohol. Drugs and alcohol are more available to teens than you may be aware. It can be difficult for your child to "just say no" to drugs and alcohol. Young people who don't know the facts about tobacco, alcohol, and other drugs are at greater risk of trying them. Your child may be interested in using drugs as a way to fit in or as a way to deal with the pressures of adolescence. Build your child's self-esteem with praise and support for decisions. A strong sense of self-worth will help your child to say no to drugs and alcohol -- and mean it. Plan to discuss a wide variety of topics with your child including alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs and the need for peer-group acceptance. You're the best role model for your child, so avoid tobacco, alcohol abuse, or other drugs yourself. Take a stand against drug issues -- your child will listen. Alcohol Use and Teens

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peer pressure help bookThe guide for parents/educators on how to peer-proof children and teens is Peer Pressure Reversal: An Adult Guide to Developing a Responsible Child, 2nd Ed.

 

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Her best-selling book for teens, How to Say No and Keep Your Friends, 2nd Ed., empowers kids to stand out—not just fit in!

 

tweens parenting bookA follow-up book for teens, When to Say Yes! And Make More Friends, shows adolescents how to select and meet quality friends and, in general, feel good for doing and being good.

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For more information, parents and teens can visit the following websites:

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The National Cancer Institute for information on non-melanoma and melanoma skin cancer.

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Christina Lorenzen is a full-time freelance writer specializing in parenting and health issues. With more than 125 articles published, she also offers her wisdom and experience to other writers by teaching writing workshops through local libraries, bookstores and online. In addition to this column, she is also a columnist for Connecting @ Home magazine . She can reached at carp119@aol.com


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