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SmileNotes
By Sharon Scott, LPC, LMFT
www.SharonScott.com

I sit here in the dark of the night reflecting on what to write you this month about what brings smiles and nothing specific, yet everything, seems to flood my mind. One of the books that I wrote for children, Nicholas’ Values: A Child’s Guide to Building Character, is about teaching good values (honesty, loyalty, sharing, etc.) and I think about the Dedication Page in it. Since the book is encouraging good character, I decided to dedicate it to those people who helped shape my character as a child and teen. The average child in my day and time had ten to fourteen significant adults involved in his or her upbringing. I have 58 names on that page! How could I not grow up well? Sadly, the average child today has, on average, only one to four significant adults helping them to grow up responsibly.

When the day gets too long and I’m tired or have an overwhelming work week or have a long stretch of difficult times, I intentionally try to think of what’s right in the world. Just a few of the things that come to mind that bring a smile to my face are:


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  • I still have my Mother living and that my parents role-modeled for 57 ½ years how to be happily married
  • a Texas sunset
  • the look of adoration in the eyes of Scooter, my tri-color Cocker Spaniel
  • 40” of rain in the past month (unheard of in Texas this time of year!)
  • Liz, a wonderful friend whom I’ve had for more years than I care to name!
  • a great movie
  • my Cecile Bruner roses that smell so sweet
  • cornbread made in a black iron skillet
  • the energy that Gabe, the new puppy, has brought to the other five geriatric dogs in my home
  • four absolutely wonderful grandparents.

Isn't it interesting that money nor material possessions are on my list? Yet that is often what we keep striving for to make us happy. My list could go on, I but prefer for you to think of ten things that bring a smile to your face. Do it now… smile… enjoy… repeat when needed!

Copyright 2007, Sharon Scott.

P.S. Please check out my other column, “The Counselor’s Corner,”about Self-Esteem and Peer Pressure.





Sharon Scott, LPC, LMFT, has been making a difference in peoples’ lives for 30 years though her international keynotes and workshops, her eight award-winning books, and her private counseling services. Five of her books are a charming series for elementary-age children that she “co-authored” with her savvy cocker spaniel Nicholas. Each beautifully illustrated book teaches a valuable living skill such as managing emotions in Life’s Not Always Fair, building character in Nicholas’ Values, and making wise choices in Too Smart for Trouble. Sharon’s best-seller for teens is How to Say No and Keep Your Friends, 2nd Ed. Her books are available from HRD Press, 800-822-2801 or www.hrdpress.com/SharonScott . For more information on Sharon’s many workshop topics that she can bring to your child’s school or community, please see her website at www.SharonScott.com.


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Books That Work! By Sharon Scott

Family counselor Sharon Scott is the author of 8 books including this delightful series for children that is "co-authored" by her savvy cocker spaniel Nicholas who makes learning valuable life skills fun.

child character building book Too Smart for Trouble, a best-selling, award-winning book, teaches children to think on their own and how to say no when asked to do something wrong.

school age  child bookNot Better... Not Worse... Just Different is must reading for children to learn to be more sensitive to others, avoid bullying and know how to handle teasing.

elementary age child bookLife's Not Always Fair is a child's guide for managing emotions and learning to soothe oneself when mad, sad, scared or confused.

child character building book Nicholas' Values is a delightful guide helping children develop good character traits such as honesty, confidence, sharing and so much more!

kid anti-drug book Too Cool for Drugs helps children learn why and how to say no to drugs--drug education must begin in the home at an early age!

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