“The Game of Life” Start your own
coaching: 7 days program
Have you ever been a coach to a neighborhood team? I know how it feels
the first time I’ve coached a team of seven-year-old soccer kids and
how much they can really test my patience, not to mention sanity as
they run around kicking the ball like ants to a huge, white crumb. It
feels strange at first, having to be stared at by a bunch of kids who
they will know that I’m not the one in the field. Sounds wrong in a
sense, right? But what is the dead about coaching?
Coaching is all about being a, well, ‘coach’ in the corporate world of
handlers, front-liners and even a couple of benchwarmers biding their
time to be given a chance to perform. I know how that feels when I go
back to my regular day job. Some players are just MVP material, and
some of them are just to support the MVP’s so why bother sticking
around? It sounds ironic when they say ‘there is no I in team’, but
even the underachievers can be sore losers as well.
These are steps that can be done within the day, and no matter what, it
takes determination to be a coach.
1. There is a WHOLE lot of talk these days about Corporate Team
Building. There are many, many options: vacation packages, rope
courses, on-going office games, ice-breakers, etc. Management can also
purchase videos, books, and seminar packages to assist them in building
up their organization into a team worthy of belonging. A little later I
will give you some ideas of where you can go for information on these
2. The truth about motivation is waiting to be grasped! It is ripe and
ready for you to put into action today. Don’t settle for mind-numbing
gibberish. Get practical in 3 small ways to begin looking forward to
your alarm clock sounding off each morning before you huddle with the
3. Experience is the best thing despite of what course you graduated
in. There is something about being a people person who knows how to
stir the energetic side of one individual, and more so when you mix it
up with an entire team.
4. To question a person by his or her performance is sometimes
required, but never question their knowledge or their intelligence.
Sadly, I have seen a few mistakes from past coaches who never seem to
understand what a player has to go through to get the job right. It
will lead to further aggravation and maybe even hostility. If you want
the job done right, then go do it yourself. You’ll see how it is to be
at the receiving end and it will help your set a much better course for
5. Sending a player to the bench is probably the worse experience a
coach has to go through, especially if your player is the top
performer. In dealing with this kind of person, see to it that he
spills his guts voluntarily. Egotism in a performer tends to make them
lose their focus on even the smallest mistakes, then you can catch him
or her red handed. Be firm, but understanding about it.
6. Don’t allow your position to blind you from what you are supposed to
do. Even coaches are human enough to think that they are far more
superior, but only by rank. Even if you have been in their shoes when
you were their age, it’s better to dole out a piece of wisdom in order
for them to realize that this will be for their own benefit.
7. Lastly, you should learn to trust yourself and your team. Decisions
and performance are primarily your goals, and there are many of them to
see if they could perform the task much more efficiently. So before you
think about sending one member to the bench, have a good chat with him
or her and see if they have any problems. If it’s too personal, then
just encourage them to do their best and it also helps to give them a
good, encouraging slap on the back.
I guess there’s all there is to it. Being a corporate drone myself, I
know how important it is for a company to be successful, and we’re all
part of that success. Coaches are there not to make your work a little
difficult just because you have either an attitude problem or not much
a performer, but they’re the guides who will help you perform as hard
as you can possibly can. You’ll do them proud one of these days, as
well as you.