Do Yoda Proud: Meditation 101

Meditation refers to a state where your body and mind are consciously
relaxed and focused.  Practitioners of this art report
increased awareness, focus, and concentration, as well as a more
positive outlook in life.

Meditation is most commonly associated with monks, mystics and other
spiritual disciplines.  However, you don’t have to
be a monk or mystic to enjoy its benefits.  And you
don’t even have to be in a special place to practice
it.  You could even try it in your own living room!

Although there are many different approaches to meditation, the
fundamental principles remain the same.  The most important
among these principles is that of removing obstructive, negative, and
wandering thoughts and fantasies, and calming the mind with a deep
sense of focus.  This clears the mind of debris and prepares
it for a higher quality of activity.

The negative thoughts you have – those of noisy neighbors,
bossy officemates, that parking ticket you got, and unwanted
spam– are said to contribute to the
‘polluting’ of the mind, and shutting them out is
allows for the ‘cleansing’ of the mind so that it
may focus on deeper, more meaningful thoughts.

Some practitioners even shut out all sensory input – no
sights, no sounds, and nothing to touch – and try to detach
themselves from the commotion around them.  You may now focus
on a deep, profound thought if this is your goal.  It may seem
deafening at first, since we are all too accustomed to constantly
hearing and seeing things, but as you continue this exercise you will
find yourself becoming more aware of everything around you.

If you find the meditating positions you see on television threatening
– those with impossibly arched backs, and painful-looking
contortions – you need not worry.  The principle
here is to be in a comfortable position conducive to
concentration.  This may be while sitting cross-legged,
standing, lying down, and even walking.

If the position allows you to relax and focus, then that would be a
good starting point.  While sitting or standing, the back
should be straight, but not tense or tight.  In other
positions, the only no-no is slouching and falling asleep.

Loose, comfortable clothes help a lot in the process since tight
fitting clothes have a tendency to choke you up and make you feel tense.

The place you perform meditation should have a soothing
atmosphere.  It may be in your living room, or bedroom, or any
place that you feel comfortable in.  You might want an
exercise mat if you plan to take on the more challenging positions (if
you feel more focused doing so, and if the contortionist in you is
screaming for release).  You may want to have the place
arranged so that it is soothing to your senses.

Silence helps most people relax and meditate, so you may want a quiet,
isolated area far from the ringing of the phone or the humming of the
washing machine.  Pleasing scents also help in that regard, so
stocking up on aromatic candles isn’t such a bad idea either.

The monks you see on television making those monotonous sounds are
actually performing their mantra.  This, in simple terms, is a
short creed, a simple sound which, for these practitioners, holds a
mystic value.

You do not need to perform such; however, it would pay to note that
focusing on repeated actions such as breathing, and humming help the
practitioner enter a higher state of consciousness.

The principle here is focus.  You could also try focusing on a
certain object or thought, or even, while keeping your eyes open, focus
on a single sight.

One sample routine would be to – while in a meditative state
– silently name every part of you body and focusing your
consciousness on that part. While doing this you should be aware of any
tension on any part of your body.  Mentally visualize
releasing this tension.  It works wonders.

In all, meditation is a relatively risk-free practice and its benefits
are well worth the effort (or non-effort – remember
we’re relaxing).

Studies have shown that meditation does bring about beneficial
physiologic effects to the body.  And there has been a growing
consensus in the medical community to further study the effects of
such.  So in the near future, who knows, that mystical,
esoteric thing we call meditation might become a science itself!

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"Be your authentic self it's the path to success."-Psychologist Diane Higgins has authored numerous papers and has lectured extensively helping people find their authentic self, learn to be being purposeful and develop positive thinking. Diane is the author and/or editor of our Self Help Section.
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