The Powers of a Positive Attitude

I am going to ask you to something very weird right now. First of all,
I want you to listen to your thoughts. Now tell me, what thoughts fill
your head? Would you label them as positive, or negative?

Now let’s say you are walking down the street with these thoughts. Do
you think anyone who would meet you would be able to tell you
what’s on your mind?

The answer to number one is up to you. But, the answer number two can
be pretty generic. Although people will not be able to tell you exactly
what you think, they will more or less have an idea of how you are

Here’s another question. When you enter a party filled with friends, do
they all fall silent as if something terrible had happened? Or does
everybody there perk up as if waiting for something exciting to happen?

You know what? The answer to all these depends on your frame of mind.

Thoughts are very powerful. They affect your general attitude. The
attitude you carry reflects on your appearance, too – unless,
of course, you are a great actor.

And it doesn’t end there. Your attitude can also affect people around

The type of attitude you carry depends on you. It can be either
positive or negative.

Positive thoughts have a filling effect. They are admittedly
invigorating. Plus, the people around the person carrying positive
thoughts are usually energized by this type of attitude.

Negative thoughts on the other hand have a sapping effect on other
people. Aside from making you look gloomy and sad, negative thoughts
can turn a festive gathering into a funeral wake.

A positive attitude attracts people, while a negative attitude repels
them. People tend to shy away from those who carry a negative attitude.

We can also define attitude as the way of looking at the world. If you
choose to focus on the negative things in the world, more or less you
have a negative attitude brewing up. However, if you choose to focus on
the positive things, you are more likely carry a positive attitude.

You have much to gain from a very positive attitude. For one, studies
have shown that a positive attitude promotes better health. Those with
this kind of attitude also have more friends. projecting a positive
attitude also helps one to handle stress and problems better than those
who have a negative attitude.

A positive attitude begins with a healthy self-image. If you will love
the way you are and are satisfied, confident, and self-assured, you
also make others are around feel the same way.

A negative attitude, on the other hand, has, of course, an opposite
effect. So, carrying a negative attitude has a twofold drawback. You
feel bad about yourself, and you make others feel the same way.

If you want to have a positive attitude, you have to feature healthy
thoughts. This is probably very hard to do nowadays since, all around
us, the media feeds us nothing but negative thoughts. A study shows
that for every 14 things a parent says to his or her child, only one is
positive. This is truly a saddening thought.

If you want a healthier outlook in life, you need to think happy
thoughts, and you have to hear positive things as well. So, what can
you do? Well, for starters, you could see a funny movie, you could play
with children, spend some time telling jokes with friends. All these
activities fill you with positive stimuli, which in turn promotes
positive attitude.

Although it is impossible to keep ourselves from the negative things
around us, you can still carry a positive attitude by focusing on the
good things, the positive things in life.

And this positive attitude you now carry can be of benefit to other
people. Sometimes when other people feel down, the thing people mostly
do is try to give them advice. But sometimes, all they need is somebody
to sit by them, and listen to them. If you have a positive attitude you
may be able to cheer them up without even having to say anything.

If positive attitude is really great, why do people choose to adopt a
negative attitude instead? One who carries a negative attitude may be
actually sending a signal for attention. Before you get me wrong,
feeling sad, angry, or gloomy is not wrong itself. But dwelling on
these thoughts for far too long is not healthy either. There is a time
to mourn.

As always, if you are beset by troubles, even in your darkest hour,
focus on the good things in life, you will always have hope. Problems
become something you can overcome.

You do not have much to lose by adopting a healthy, positive attitude.
Studies show that such an attitude actually retards aging, makes you
healthier, helps you develop a better stress coping mechanism, and has
a very positive effect on all the people you meet every day. So, what’s
not to like about a positive attitude? Adopt one today.

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Diane Higgins

Diane Higgins

"Be your authentic self it's the path to success."-Psychologist Diane Higgins has authored numerous papers and has lectured extensively helping people find their authentic self, learn to be being purposeful and develop positive thinking. Diane is the author and/or editor of our Self Help Section.
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